I learned a long time ago how family can hurt you, so much more than strangers. The hurt is deeper because of who they are. A late legacy from my childhood is my need to be honest. It has caused me so much loss and been to the detriment of ‘me’ many times. But growing up in a web of lies makes you want the truth, no matter what the consequences are. It also makes you keep promises made, sometimes in desperation, that you later regret. Like my promise to Jack’s dad when I found him. I can recognise my losses through my need to be honest and keep my integrity in place, more times than I want to think about.
I haven’t talked about others on this blog except the nasty. I don’t talk about family ‘stuff’ as it is private and personal. The whole idea of this blog is to keep my loyal readers up to date, either with my writing or events to do with my writing. Such as new books.
The reason for today’s blog is the fact that Jade Louise Wood is continuing to malign me and my name on her blog. Her evil lies have made me ill in the past, I won’t let this happen this time. I am a bigger and better person than her and I don’t think she would recognize the truth if it slapped her in the face. I also don’t think she recognizes lies. They are her mainstay in life after all. She continues to bad mouth me telling lies and slandering my name on her blog. If people took the trouble to read the whole of her blog, they would see what a distasteful nasty person she is.
All I ever did was try and help someone I believed was being raped and sexually abused. I believed the lies she told me and did everything I could to help her. I put my life on hold, family on hold everything was put to the wall to be there for her. Maybe that makes me stupid but I would do this again for a real victim.
I am not going to bore you with this horrible story but need now to put a stop, once and for all to the damage she is trying to inflict on me.
She complains that I talk about her. She instigated everything right from the start and now is trying hard to stir up trouble, which is now involving a family member. So yes I will talk about her! I will continue to name her, write about her, as a warning to others. This latest blog she wrote was brought to my attention by a mutual friend.
When she named me in her blog, I let it go. When she went further and put my real name out there, I let it go. But now she has tried to wash my dirty linen in public. Something she knows nothing about and something she has no right to talk about!
This is between me and my family. It has nothing to do with what she did to me, or what she thinks about my writing the story of her evil. Nothing!
This time she has gone too far.
I won’t discuss family business on here, it is my business. Families are strange things and mine no different from anyone else’s. Families argue and disagree and sometimes fall out for good. Sometimes people do things that are unforgivable and then take themselves out of your life because of your integrity. It is no one’s business than theirs. It is between them and their family. Anyone with any sense of what is right, would not talk about another person’s business, especially when they don’t know the facts, and especially on a public blog. The thing is, because this pathetic individual Jade Wood is an habitual liar, she doesn’t ever think that someone can play her at her own nasty game. Too quick to believe the worst of others. My Nan used to say “evil doers, evil thinkers’. I will say no more.
As I said, her latest blog was brought to my attention by a mutual friend and in this, she is still talking about my private personal business that she knows nothing about!
She is now treading on very thin ice. She thinks the legal stuff is over. It isn’t. I am now more determined than ever to put this right.
I have never been out to wreck her life as she states. She contacted me! She made up evil sick lies for 6 months! Her doing! I only ever wanted to help her. Help her as I have hopefully helped others, that was the whole reason for telling my story in the first place. After the whole sorry story of this hoax was out, after the emotional damage had been done; I was too ill to do anything, other than what the police asked of me. It was they who suggested this would make a good book, a book to warn people about Internet falsehoods.
Now, I have had enough. As I said, I have let other things go but not anymore.
Others have been fooled by this woman and have taken it no further so she feels she is safe. But hurting people, especially someone who tried to help her, is in my book, unforgivable. Talking about their personal problems and involving their family, well there are no words.
If she does not remove any link to my family, any lies about me or them from her blog, I will take this further. It doesn’t matter why they said anything, it was she who contacted them and so again, she is the instigator. It was she who made all of this public, no one else. So she must take the consequences for her actions. If she doesn’t stop the lies and malicious slander in her blog, I will sue for slander! I have already been asked to make another statement about her slandering me and have so far not done this. If she doesn’t take down the references to my family, the lies about me and the name calling immediately, I will have no choice but to take this further.
Unlike me, she does talk about her family and in a very bad light. If this comes out, her own family will find out the truth, I wonder how that would make her feel.
This should be a good time for me and my family A happy, she is trying hard to spoil it for me. She won’t succeed.
Today, I am more determined than ever to continue helping others who need it, to write my books and have them published and to enjoy launching NOBODY TOLD ME.
I haven’t enjoyed writing this blog, I always hoped it would never come to this but I can’t and won’t take any more rubbishing from this nasty young woman.
I take this opportunity to again thank my loyal friends and readers for their ongoing support. xxx